This is not what you signed up for. Maybe it's not too late to let go
How will you know that it is just a fling, a friend with benefit or a relationship or an Affair?
It may smell like a real relationship, may look like a real relationship but it is not a real relationship.
By God, don’t be an alms woman. Don’t beg. If you do, then you will be no better than a foot stool. They will use you for their pleasure. As if you were a rag, they will leave their dust in their wake, and you will become the town dust gatherer, which is worse than being a beggar.
We are always in pursuit of things we cannot have. The things we have we more often than not take for granted; the men in our lives, our careers, our families. I always ask myself, What if we could be content with the less ‘spectacular’ things in life. It is a struggle I go through … Continue reading The Newcomer